Sunday, December 6, 2015

Preparations

Old Testament: Malachi 3:1-4 
New Testament: Luke 3:1-6

Are you ready? Are you ready?

This is a question with which I became very familiar over the summer and into the fall, as my wife got closer and closer to the due date for our first child. In my full-time job, I work as a hospital chaplain, covering pediatrics and women’s health – four floors and dozens of staff members, all of whom were very curious to know: Are you ready? I’m sure I got that question at least five times a day, every day. Once we’d had our baby showers, my standard response was, “Well, the baby has things now…”

As the father of an almost-three-month-old, I now know that we were absolutely NOT ready. In fact, our daughter Norah came three and a half weeks early, so we were definitely not ready! We still might not be… I’ll get back to you on that.

Advent is a season of preparation – of getting ready – and so as I reflected on the scripture passages this week, I thought about the many ways in which we prepare for certain events.

Are you ready … for company to come over? When it’s time to have guests, as our opening hymn said, we clean the house – “trimming the hearth and setting the table” – I don’t know about you, but the most cleaning happens in my house during the fifteen to twenty minutes before visitors show up! I want everything to look its best, even if I’ve cleared a bunch of junk off the table, only to put it on our bed upstairs. I want to trick people into thinking I’ve got it all together.

Are you ready … for the big test coming up at school? You spend time reading and studying, doing flashcards or taking practice exams. You want to know as much information as possible, so that nothing surprises you when your teacher says “Okay, begin.”

Are you ready … for when disaster strikes? My wife is the one who does this at our house. Every time there’s the hint of bad weather – snow, in particular – she makes sure we have bottled water, bread, peanut butter, candles, matches, batteries, the cars are gassed up – all the things I fail to think about. Usually I tease her about this, except for the year that derecho came through and knocked out our power for a couple days. She wants to be sure we’ll be well-stocked if the power goes out or we lose heat or who-knows-what happens.

Are you ready … for the big performance? You spend extra time practicing your part – maybe singing in the shower, or humming in your head as you ride to school. You want to get things just right. You want it to be perfect.

Are you ready … for Christmas? You pull the decorations out of storage, search for the perfect tree, make a list of things you want and another list of things you have to buy for others, dig out your Christmas card mailing list, write up the holiday letter – making sure to list all your big accomplishments (it’s a lot of lists, come to think of it) – brave the hectic malls or, if you’re like me, avoid them altogether and do your shopping online. You want it to be the picture-perfect family holiday, with everything just right.

What do all these things have in common? Whether we’re preparing for company to come over or for the big performance, we’re always trying to put our best faces forward. We’re trying not to let people see our vulnerable side, the side of us that’s not quite perfect. And there’s not necessarily anything wrong with that, per se – there’s nothing wrong with doing well on a presentation, or having a really beautiful Christmas light display on your lawn – and there’s certainly nothing wrong with acing a test! I should really make that clear on a Sunday when we have so many students present!

But there’s another dimension to preparing for all those things I’ve just mentioned, especially preparing for Christmas: we’re trying to be in control. And that is not the kind of preparation we do at Advent, when we stand back and recognize that we are not in control at all. There’s a difference between preparing for Christmas and preparing for Christ.

When we’re preparing for Christmas, we want to make everything look good.

When we prepare for Christ, we confess that things don’t really look all that good.

“How could we possibly celebrate if we are paying attention to this world?” writes blogger Sarah Bessey. “How do we make merry when our hearts are broken by Paris, by Syria, by Kenya, by Beirut, [by Colorado Springs, by San Bernadino]? [How do we celebrate] when, in response to every crisis, our communities seem splintered and divided in how to respond, and careless words are flung like rocks at our own glass houses? [How do we celebrate] when, closer to home, perhaps we are lonely or bored or tired or sick or broke? In these days,” she writes, “celebration can seem callous and uncaring, if not downright impossible.”[1]

When we’re preparing for Christmas, we don’t want to be surprised by anything.

When we prepare for Christ, we will be surprised by everything.

Perhaps the biggest surprise is that Christ came – not as a conquering king or a supernatural lightning strike from heaven – but as a humble baby, in a seemingly unimportant corner of the world.

Listen to how Luke’s gospel sets up this shock: he lists off the great and powerful rulers of the world at the time – Emperor Tiberius, Pontius Pilate, Herod, Philip, Lysanius – and then he lists off the powerful rulers of the church – Annas and Caiaphus – and then he says, in essence, “The word of God didn’t come to any of those people. Instead, it came to an apparent lunatic who spent his time wandering around in the wilderness, eating locusts and honey, quoting centuries-old passages that had, so far, failed to come true.”

When we prepare for Christmas, we want everything to be perfect.

When we prepare for Christ, we recognize that we are far from perfect.

We hear this in John the Baptist’s call for people to “repent and be baptized” in the text today. In fact, this recognition of the need for repentance is embedded in our worship practice every week in the form of our prayer of confession, which is not actually designed so that we may silently list off the ways we’ve messed up during the week. Instead, we lay before the Lord not only those sins which … belong to us individually and personally, but also the sin and brokenness of the world itself. “We do not confess primarily specific acts … but rather [acknowledge] the tragic brokenness of our human condition, in which, even without intending to, we are constantly running away from God and our neighbors.”[2]

In our Advent preparations, we repent – we turn from our brokenness – not so that God will come into the world, but in response to the glorious good news that God is already coming into the world! As we heard in our promise of forgiveness: “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

We want to be in control, we want everything to look good, we don’t want to be surprised, we want to be perfect. God’s coming into our lives thwarts all those expectations. And so, as I reflect on Advent this year, it strikes me that it really is a lot like preparing for a baby.

Before my daughter was born, I was told again and again: You have no idea how your life is going to change! And I took that seriously; I believed people when they said it. “It will be hard,” I thought. “It will be hard to fit this baby into our lives.” And then Norah was born – and she was early, and she needed to be fed, and she needed to be changed, and she needed to be held. And I suddenly realized, “Oh, no – it’s not about fitting her into our lives; it’s about fitting our lives around hers.”

I think – I hope – something similar happens when we decide to put our lives into God’s hands. Dietrich Bonhoeffer explains it this way: “The coming of God is not only a message of joy, but also fearful news for anyone who has a conscience.”[3]

He meant that God’s coming into the world opens our eyes to the suffering around us and calls us to truly embrace Christ’s call: “Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it.”

What does this mean? It means recognizing that all people are children of God. And if we do that, then we can’t join others who mock the weird kid at school; we are actually called to befriend him. We can’t walk by the homeless woman on the corner; we are called to clothe and shelter her. We can’t demean those whose political or religious views are different from our own; we are called to listen to them, to find common ground. We can’t ignore the hungry among us; we are called to feed them, just as we are about to be fed by God at the communion table before us.

And so, maybe the most radical thing you can do this week is to eat this bread and drink this cup, to lose your life by casting in your lot with a God who defies all expectations, who comes unbidden, who surprises us; who takes us to places we’d rather avoid and pairs us with people we’d rather ignore; who accepts us completely, just as we are, and who loves us too fiercely to allow us to remain just as we are; who calls us to join in the healing of this broken world – a task that is daunting and dangerous, difficult and probably never done.

So what do you say?

Are you ready?

Preached December 6, 2015, by Rev. Joshua T. Andrzejewski



[2] Peter C. Bower, ed. The Companion to the Book of Common Worship, p. 23.
[3] Edwin Robertson, ed. Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Christmas Sermons, p. 25.

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